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PREPARING A HEARTFELT WEDDING SPEECH
by Rose Smith
You've been asked to deliver a wedding speech during the reception and you
have no idea where to begin. What's a person to do? Here are some tips to
help you get started.
**The Difference Between a Toast and a Speech**
A wedding toast is a short acknowledgement. Usually only a few lines are
said, then everyone is asked to raise their glasses and drink a tribute. A
wedding speech, on the other hand, is usually several minutes long and
encompasses stories, accomplishments, etc. of the person (or group of
people) being acknowledged.
**The Order of Wedding Speeches**
There is usually a certain order that is followed when giving wedding
speeches. This is not written in stone and can be changed to suit the
particular wedding party.
First, the bride's father or a good family friend gives a speech about the
bride and groom, ending with a toast. The groom then stands up, thanks the
speech maker and delivers his own speech on behalf of the bridesmaids and
maid of honor. The best man then accepts the speech on behalf of the
bridesmaids and thanks the groom. He then delivers a speech about the bride
and groom's parents. At the end of each speech, the current speaker also
proposes a toast to that particular person or persons.
The above is just a general guideline. You can rearrange the order of
speeches, have the bride make a speech, etc.
**Preparing Your Speech**
DO consider what you know about the person (or persons) you are giving the
speech too. Write down any funny stories, anecdotes, little things that
stand out in your mind and a few appropriate jokes.
DON'T be crude or bring up extremely embarrassing situations.
DO think about the length of your speech and what you'd like to say. Keep it
short, no longer than 2 or 3 minutes at most. Take your time writing and
rewriting as needed.
DON'T make it boring by sticking only to facts. Add a joke here and there,
or bring up a funny (but not too embarrassing) situation that you remember.
DO rehearse your speech. Practice it over and over. Rewrite any long
sentences and make sure the speech flows smoothly.
DON'T read directly from your speech. Make short notes on index cards to cue
you on what to say next and make eye contact on with the guests.
DO get together with the anyone else who is making a speech at the wedding
so you have an idea of what you'll each be saying. You don't want to be
repeating a similar story or joke that someone else has prepared. Also, make
sure you are familiar with the order that the speeches will be given in, so
you are prepared when your turn comes.
DON'T rush your speech. Take your time and speak slowly and clearly. If you
have a joke or funny story, wait a few seconds after you tell it for people
to laugh.
DO remember to thank the last speaker and accept their tribute on behalf of
the person they were speaking about.
DON'T forget to end your speech with a toast to the person(s) you just paid
tribute to.
The above tips should help you get started. However, if you're still nervous
and don't believe you can write a great speech, I'd suggest picking up the
ebook Wedding Celebration Speeches. It contains everything you need to help
you write that perfect speech from your own heart. http://www.wedthemes.com/weddingspeeches.htm
Resource Box:
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Rose Smith is the owner of Wedding Themes and More, a website designed to
help you discover your perfect wedding theme. Find more great ideas,
resources and articles on our <A HREF="http://www.wedthemes.com/wedding-speeches-wedding-toasts.htm">
Wedding Speeches & Toasts </A> page.
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