PREPARING
A HEARTFELT WEDDING SPEECH
You've been asked to deliver a wedding speech during the
reception and you have no idea where to begin. What's a
person to do? Here are some tips to help you get
started.
**The Difference Between a Toast and a Speech**
A wedding toast is a short acknowledgement. Usually only
a few lines are said, then everyone is asked to raise
their glasses and drink a tribute. A wedding speech, on
the other hand, is usually several minutes long and
encompasses stories, accomplishments, etc. of the person
(or group of people) being acknowledged.
**The Order of Wedding Speeches**
There is usually a certain order that is followed when
giving wedding speeches. This is not written in stone
and can be changed to suit the particular wedding party.
First, the bride's father or a good family friend gives
a speech about the bride and groom, ending with a toast.
The groom then stands up, thanks the speech maker and
delivers his own speech on behalf of the bridesmaids and
maid of honor. The best man then accepts the speech on
behalf of the bridesmaids and thanks the groom. He then
delivers a speech about the bride and groom's parents.
At the end of each speech, the current speaker also
proposes a toast to that particular person or persons.
The above is just a general guideline. You can rearrange
the order of speeches, have the bride make a speech,
etc.
**Preparing Your Speech**
DO consider what you know about the person (or persons)
you are giving the speech too. Write down any funny
stories, anecdotes, little things that stand out in your
mind and a few appropriate jokes.
DON'T be crude or bring up extremely embarrassing
situations.
DO think about the length of your speech and what you'd
like to say. Keep it short, no longer than 2 or 3
minutes at most. Take your time writing and rewriting as
needed.
DON'T make it boring by sticking only to facts. Add a
joke here and there, or bring up a funny (but not too
embarrassing) situation that you remember.
DO rehearse your speech. Practice it over and over.
Rewrite any long sentences and make sure the speech
flows smoothly.
DON'T read directly from your speech. Make short notes
on index cards to cue you on what to say next and make
eye contact on with the guests.
DO get together with the anyone else who is making a
speech at the wedding so you have an idea of what you'll
each be saying. You don't want to be repeating a similar
story or joke that someone else has prepared. Also, make
sure you are familiar with the order that the speeches
will be given in, so you are prepared when your turn
comes.
DON'T rush your speech. Take your time and speak slowly
and clearly. If you have a joke or funny story, wait a
few seconds after you tell it for people to laugh.
DO remember to thank the last speaker and accept their
tribute on behalf of the person they were speaking
about.
DON'T forget to end your speech with a toast to the
person(s) you just paid tribute to.
The above tips should help you get started. However, if
you're still nervous and don't believe you can write a
great speech, I'd suggest picking up the ebook Wedding
Celebration Speeches. It contains everything you need to
help you write that perfect speech from your own heart. http://www.wedthemes.com/weddingspeeches.htm
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Rose Smith is the owner of Wedding Themes and More, a
website designed to help you discover your perfect
wedding theme. Find more great ideas, resources and
articles on our Wedding
Speeches & Toasts page.
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